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9/12/2010 4:55 pm |
As a couple, we really enjoy to talk about our readings and a few days ago we discussed over an article I read on a french website, Psychologies.com. It was about 5 evidences showing that you are really in love. # 1 To think that the other is mysterious... Love is a mystery, we cannot explain rationaly this link that connects one to the other. It was this feeling of something missing in our life since our childhood that disappeared the day we met the person meant for us. #2 To fear the loss of the one we love No love without fears and risks. We go through problems, sometimes we choose to walk away, sometimes we face them together. We fear the death because to be two means a lot more to lose then before. #3 To be willing to commit our lives without knowing what will happen We don't have the total control of our feelings. We can reach levels of joy we never thought we would. Then fall. But we must believe that love is a miracle, love is a gift and it is worth fighting for and that it is easier to stand up again after the fall if the other stands by your side. #4 A strong sexual desire for the other Love brings desire. To make love with the one we love teach us how to be a better life partner, to get to know each other better. Now when sexual desire seems to fade away, it would be a mistake to think that love is gone. There are moments in life when we are so happy that the other exists ant that found him or her,it brings us intense satisfaction. #5 To justify our existence Jean Paul Sartre said " To be loved means to justify our own existence".To hear our lover says "YOU ARE THE ONE" gives to our life its real meaning.We exist because someone loves us and see us through magnificent glasses that smooth our defaults and enhance our qualities. I couldn't translate the whole article (it's sunday afterall)and what you read above is more my impressions about the topic. Whatever my partner and I discussed it over and it only confirmed what we already knew. Love is the air. 
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9/12/2010 6:25 pm |
Why just one...partner. Wouldn't that get rather monotonous, boring, and drive anybody crazy and want to quit? I could say some nice things about your hair but would it really matter?
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